Saturday, April 16, 2011
Thoughts on Parenting
I had a rough night with Trocon tonight, sometimes I feel like I am not a good mother. I try my best but it is really hard when you don't have your stuff together. I finally understand why they say wait first. I mean, it you have the patient and things will work out but it really unfair for Trocon sometimes to deal with my emotion and fraustration. He is a reflection of me and I do need to disclipline him more. Tonight going to bed he pull my hair like always, but tonight it was really painful. He cry and cry we fought even at the bath, I dont know why I am so rough with him but I need to be patient and clam down. Anyways, I finally clam down after walking away from him and when I clam down I had a conversatoin with him, I thought him when he pull my hair it hurt I was wrong for hitting him and it is not nice to hit people and mommy shouldn't hit you so no more hitting, I am sorry. I love you and be gentle with mommy hair I finally taought him it is a process but I will work on it. I love my son darly and I need to focus on him more so I am going to create a new plan and reminder for myself in my journal or on my board.
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I feel like he needs lots of love, usually when kid act out cuz they insecure and need love it hard but you kinda need to stick with the discipline. you also made that his habit to play with ur hair, but then different parenting style with grandma or other caretaker back fire a little but not everybody perfect.Patience love and teaching them the goodness of life of the moment we live is all we could do. Their r way worse parent but who am i to judge im not perfect either.Try my best because once u have kid they are the number1 propriety you have support from mom and that very lucky although she is tired.
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